Of Influence

I think the people close to us influence us in a much bigger way than we ever realized.Our family ... our close friends ... and our colleagues.All of them plays a part in our formation on the idea we have about the things we do in life or just life in general.

I was examining my own belief and idea I have about a few things the other day, and I realize that my family has been a big part of what I am today.For instance, my parents have been the ultra-conservative type when it comes to financial issues.They are the kind of parents who would tough it out themself when times are bad.They won't share with their children on what is the financial condition of our family.I think this is due to the fact that they think the family's financial is the responsibility of the parents and the children should not be "burdened" by it.

And now ... I think I have embedded this "value" deeply in me.Looking at my own belief, I realized that I am very sensitive to financial issues.I find it rather uneasy to discuss my financial circumstances ... even with my own parents.

Not sure whether it is a good thing.But I think I would personally like to raise children who knows how to manage their own finance since young.So, I guess I need to change a little of myself there?*shrug*

Definitely something to think about more.

That is just one part of me.It is interesting to look deep and find out why I have the idea I have now.How I am differing from what my parents and friends have been showing me.Or adapting to their values.It gives me a clearer idea of the kind of person I want to be.